You started drinking
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But now
drinking
is doing the opposite
AND YOU’RE SO READY.
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To wake up without shame.
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To be present for your loved ones.
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To trust yourself again.
YOU KNOW IT’S TIME.
Some days you feel ready to stop drinking – some days you don’t. But deep inside, you know it’s time. You know you were meant for something bigger than being in this cycle of booze-insanity and survival. But up until now, you haven't known HOW.
IT ALL CHANGES TODAY.
YOU’RE NOT ALONE.
Red wine was part of my identity.
I called it “my best friend” - until it turned on me.
My I’m-done-moment came in 2009, when I drove my 9-year-old, drunk, and almost killed us. I ran to AA and got sober – but I was secretly miserable. Sobriety felt like punishment.
I drank again at 5 years sober.
It took me two years to crack the code on how to get sober once more. This time, I was determined to find a completely different kind of sobriety. A revolutionary kind.
I DID.
What I Know
It’s not about saying no to alcohol.
It’s about saying yes to you.
Sobriety is not punishment.
It’s the door to re-writing your life.
So - when you’re done hurting yourself...
“I’m here to help you claim your Freedom with a capital freaking F!”
¡Hola!
I'm Pamela
"Let's get you back home to yourself."
I’m proud to call myself an alcoholic in recovery. I wear that label like a badge of honor because, for me, it is.
My creds: I’m a speaker, podcast host, and meditation teacher. I’m also a Certified Professional Recovery Coach, Life Coach, and SHE RECOVERS certified coach.
Truth? What helps me guide you is not the professional credentials.
It’s the 15+ years in my journey of recovery. I've been through it all, from the worst kind of sobriety to relapsing to finding a sobriety that's empowering and transformed my life. This is why I can help.
Let's reverse-engineer your sobriety.
If you're here to quit drinking...
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Let's start by connecting.
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Today
My students and clients have discovered a new way of doing life. They’ve quit drinking by tapping into the warrior within. They are rebels. Stigma-breakers. Shame-ditchers.
They are proud of who they’ve become and have learned ways of being present to their lives, no matter what comes their way. They trust themselves.
Their loved ones can see the change in them, sure. But it’s how they feel about themselves that makes all the difference.
NOW IT’S YOUR TURN
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CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“After years of self-destruction through drinking, I contacted Pamela and finally understood some basic things that changed everything. Her personal support made me feel like I was talking to a friend, not a professional. I'm so proud to say that I’ve been sober since 10-18-21.”
Jason M, course student
CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“Working with Pamela has been eye-opening. I wasn’t ready to quit but knew something had to change. Now I’m 4 months sober, which is a first! Feeling good about my life in so many ways and excited to see what’s next in my "personal revolution", like she says.”
Glenda G., mentorship client
CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“Pamela: You’re the velvet hammer I did not know I needed. When I found you, I could not go more than a day without a drink. It’s now been a year, and it would not have been possible without you. Your voice notes have saved me from myself more than once. You rock.”
Trevor P., course student
CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“What can I say about my dear Pamela? I knew I needed to change my drinking habits but was scared to face the truth. I also didn’t think I was as bad as needing AA, so I started our coaching with hesitation. Here I am, two years sober, living in a different city, and even doing a different job. My whole life changed with one simple call. So thankful.”
Carney C., mentorship client
MY PROCESS
The Badass Recovery Process reverse-engineers your sobriety.
I designed this framework using my insight from “within the mind of an addict” (don’t fear the term, it’s a superpower that helps me understand things that others don’t.) This process will give you radical clarity and practical tools, so you can build a sobriety you’re proud of, and never have to have another Day One. Let's redesign your life, shall we?
Your "Deep Yes"
People think it begins with a decision to stop drinking. But some of us don’t have the ability to decide to quit. That’s not how our mind works. We must decide from a different place. Clarity + compassion + ownership are the building blocks of our mindset shift as we begin.
Your Early Sobriety
This is where we grow our sea-legs in our new life sans booze. We’ll arm ourselves with new tools, concepts, and habits, shedding shame and victimhood along the way. It's about laying the foundation for sobriety that sticks.
Your Action Path
Sobriety is like marathon training, but with cake. We’ll craft a detailed plan through a program, M-B-S toolkit, and community. We don’t wait to “feel like doing” something – we do it because we said we would.
Your (R)evolution.
Once you've got your sobriety sea-legs, it's time for transformation. We’ll get under the hood of your drinking as we learn new mindsets and behaviors that will shift everything. The goal? Resiliency. Integrity. A new YOU that you can feel proud of.
SO WHERE SHOULD YOU GET STARTED?
DO YOU WANT TO QUIT DRINKING?
Begin with my series “A NEW, SOBER YOU.”
This series includes three powerful online courses:
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SOBRIETY 101: Twelve video lessons that walk you through the ABCs of ditching the drink and reclaiming your life. Clarity and a path of action.
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REFRAME30: A month of audio coaching to help you navigate the first stage of sobriety with self-compassion and empowerment. #youcandothis
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CRUSH THE CRAVING: Learn to navigate the "tidal craving wave" when it hits (and it will.)
You don't ever have to have another day one.
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DO YOU WANT PERSONAL SUPPORT?
Let's get you on my MENTORSHIP program
Whether you’re sober-curious, ready to quit, stuck in codependency, wanting to grow your sobriety or anywhere in between, hiring me as your coach is the fastest way to get results.
Using the Badass Recovery framework, the sessions are custom-tailored to you and your needs. There’s no formulaic coaching – you are unique, and so should your recovery.
learn more and let's chatARE YOU SOBER, BUT “MEH"..?
If you’re already sober and ready to begin your
(R)evolution:
Join me in the Badass Recovery private community (coming 2025) and get access to:
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The “I’M SOBER, NOW WHAT?” course with Alyssa and Pamela.
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Mentorship videos, resources, tips, and tricks to add fire to your sobriety.
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Monthly live Q&A with Alyssa and Pamela.
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A community of badass warriors just like you.
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Here’s the course para ti.
Por supuesto que tengo un curso en español para mi gente. Aqui tu mejor inversión para pararle a la tomadera y volver a ser libre una vez más.
Cuéntame más, YAWANT THE SOBRIETY JOURNAL?
THE UNAPOLOGETICALLY SOBER JOURNAL.
Ninety days to redesign your life.
Sobriety can be deliciously selfish - a time to be all in and become your own best friend.
This journal will give you Coaching guidance, a 90-day sobriety action plan, and personal accountability. Boom.
Yes! I need this journal
What’s this badass thing anyway...?
Stop clutching your pearls.
A BADASS:
More than a term, it’s a badge of honor.
A badass doesn't just face challenges—they embrace them with grit and resilience.
They’re rebels, stomping on society’s stigma and status quo.
They’re bold. Unfiltered. Unapologetic.
They don’t tap out. They show up to their lives, no matter what.
They weather the storm - because they are the storm.
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Are you ready to step into your badass?
YOU ASK, I ANSWER
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