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My gift to you.TRYING TO DO IT ALONE IS HARD.
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If you're like me, you've tried to quitĀ repeatedly.Ā Maybe you were able to move forward but got stuckā€”twoĀ steps forward, one step back.Ā
Moments like these feel hopeless.Ā But if you take a deep breath and are willing to shift, they're golden invitations.
I took a leap and hired a mentor in 2017, when I was stuck inĀ a drinking relapse.
It was a scary decision- I didn't know if she would get me or be able to help me.
InvestingĀ in myself was hardĀ because IĀ was broke (financially and emotionally), but IĀ knew I couldn'tĀ continue wasting my days away.Ā
IT WAS THE BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE.
IT DOESN'T MATTER WHERE YOU'RE AT.
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I will meet you wherever you are. Whether you are...
- Not ready to quit - but aware that something's off with you and drinking.
- Ready to get sober but scared of going to AA (or have been burned before.)
- Willing to do anything to stop, butĀ noĀ clue of where to start.
- A student my courses and ready to deepenĀ your path.
- Or perhaps you're sober, but itĀ ain't that great and you need a "sobrietyĀ kickstart."
- Anywhere in between.
I've got your back.
NO. MORE. SHAME.
How many "Day Ones" have you had?
I had a ridiculous amount.Ā Each held a glimmer of hope, but it never changed.Ā The shameĀ of how I acted when I drank,Ā and ofĀ "failing"Ā again, wasĀ unbearable. ShameĀ was my second skin. The more I drank, the more shame I felt. The more shame I felt, the more I drank. I was stuck in a toxic loop. Have you ever felt like that? That's where we'll begin. Dropping the shame so you can finally breathe.Ā
KATE K.Ā Mentorship client
"I was in denial for a long time, but my daily wine was becoming a problem. I loved this journey withĀ you because I understood how toĀ think aboutĀ thingsĀ in a completely new way. I'm now 4 months sober and really loving my new life."
Fifteen+ years on the journeyĀ
of recovery...
Over the last decade and a half, I've been through every twist and turn of the journey, fromĀ utterly hopeless from a relapse in 2014 - to sharing my story in front of thousands. I know what it's like to feel trapped and to be set free.
When you're struggling with alcohol, plenty of people want to helpā€”therapists, friends, family. But unless they've wrestled with the insanity of drinking themselves, they won't really understand. I do.
I've been right where you are and I knowĀ the way forward and out.
I believe in a journey that's packed with both self-compassion and personal responsibility. I believe you are unique, so there's no "one-size-fits-all." Your story is specific to you, and so should your recovery plan.
I'm not here to push you. That's your call. But I'll say it one more time:
WeĀ can do this, together. I know we can.
PETER S.Ā Mentorship client
"Despite getting sober a few years ago, something was missing.Ā I was worried I was headed towards a drink, not away from one.Ā Pamela made me realize growth wasn't about just not drinking - but changing my thought process as a person, to reach my life goals. Through what she calls "Project Pete," I'm on a new path that keeps me sober andĀ helpsĀ me feel like a better man.Ā Muchas gracias, Pamela"
How does mentorship work?
"If I could wave a magic wand, what would you change in your life?"
Whether it's cutting back, quitting, ending toxic ties, or redesigning your life, mentorship can get you there.
Youā€™ve got one precious lifeā€”this is how you reclaim it.
Weā€™ll meet on Zoom, one hour a week. Single sessions are available, but the 7-session package is your roadmap from point A to B.
Weā€™ll assess where you are and craft a plan just for youā€”no cookie-cutter approach here.
Between sessions, Iā€™ll recommend books, podcasts, and stay reachable by text. Yes, Iā€™m always in your back pocket.
After seven weeks, weā€™ll adjust the frequency based on your needs. Youā€™re always in control.
Our goal? To upgrade your life and uncover the sober, empowered version of you. Ready?
LET'S CHATĀ
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MY PROCESS
TheĀ Badass Recovery Process
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Crafted from insights "within the mind of an addict" (don't fret, it's my superpower), this frameworkĀ stems from five years of sobriety, a two-year period of relapse, andĀ aĀ radically new entry into sobriety eight years ago. Fifteen yearsĀ on my own journeyā€”and counting.
Experience has refined a path that's both compassionate and accountable.
You'll discover deep clarity and practical tools. While sobriety is a focus, we'll delve deeper, exploring topics like codependency and the narratives from your past that need rewriting. Every dimension of your humanity is embraced. It's aboutĀ feeling proud, empowered, and deeply in love with your lifeā€”no more Day Ones.Ā
This is your (R)evolution.
CARNEYĀ O.Ā Mentorship client
"Iā€™m so much more peaceful and confident. My morning routine has been solid since you helped me develop it. I have written a two-way letter literally every morning since 4/24/21, and I havenā€™t had a drink since then.Ā More importantly, Iā€™m consistently honest with myself and genuinely nurturing my spirit. There still plenty more growth to go but thatā€™s the exciting part, no?"
WHERE SHOULD YOU BEGIN?
BOOK A FREE CALL WITH ME
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Once you do, I'll reach out via text or email, so we can find a time that works for both.Ā We'll have a phone call and explore what's going on in your life, how we can work togetherĀ - and if mentorship is the next best step for you. Simple.
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If we've spoken already, or you're ready to leap...
Then let's go! It takes three seconds of bravery to change your life.Ā I'm so proud you're doing this.
Your future self is doing a celebratory salsa dance!
I will send you the payment link via text or email. Payment plans are available - I have options to make this work for you. Boom.Ā
What if I'm not quite ready to start...?
"Your one, precious life."
Truth? Nobody feels fully ready to start. It's kind of the nature of the beast.
It's not my job to convince you, either. You're the only one that can give yourself permission to take this leap. Period.
But.
I can tell you that over the last seven years, I've seen countless lives recover their light. I'veĀ helped men, women, and non-binary folk get their joy back. It's pretty freaking magical to see someone claim their freedom and love themselves in a new way. It's the biggest honor of my life to help them.
Yes -Ā you can always start by taking my online course, A NEW, SOBER YOU, and getting the UNAPOLOGETICALLY SOBER JOURNAL as a first step.Ā
But if you've read this far and you're serious about changing your life, then book a clarity call with me. It's easy and there's no stings attached.Ā
You're one step closer toĀ your badass life.
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