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My gift to you.DOING IT ALONE IS HARD.
You’re tired of the fight. Tired of the promises you’ve made to yourself and broken. Tired of the 3 a.m. wake-ups, heart pounding, mind racing, asking, Why can’t I just get it together? You’ve built a life that looks beautiful on the outside—successful. Polished, even. But inside, wine has become the secret you can’t quit, the habit that keeps pulling you under.
Here’s what I know: you’re not failing. You’re stuck in a cycle that wasn’t designed to help you win.
You’re scared of what life looks like without wine—not just the Friday-night glass, but the connection, the stress relief, the identity that comes with it. You’re terrified of being the odd one out at dinners or business events. You’ve told yourself that cutting back is enough, but deep down, you know it’s not working.
Now, imagine this: waking up clear-headed, without regret or shame. Walking into a party, a meeting, or a night with friends and feeling confident in your own skin—not needing a drink to fit in or take the edge off. Imagine feeling strong in your body again, steady in your emotions, and free from the question that haunts you every night: Should I drink today?
THAT'S WHERE I COME IN.
I'VE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE.
I know the way out.
My mentorship isn’t about deprivation or shame—it’s about taking your power back. You’ll learn how to crush cravings and create a life that feels whole - without wine.
Sobriety isn’t about giving up—it’s about stepping into the badass version of yourself you’ve been too foggy to see.
I'll meet you wherever you are. Whether you are...
- Not ready to quit - but aware that something's off with you and drinking.
- Ready to get sober but scared of going to AA.
- Willing to do anything to stop, but no clue of where to start.
- A student my courses and ready to deepen your path.
- Or perhaps you're sober, but it ain't that great and you need a "sobriety kickstart."
- Anywhere in between.
I've got your back.
NO. MORE. SHAME.
How many "Day Ones" have you had?
I had a ridiculous amount. Each held a glimmer of hope, but it always faded. The shame of how I acted when I drank, and of "failing" again. The more I drank, the more shame I felt. The more shame I felt, the more I drank. I was stuck in a toxic loop. That's where we'll begin.
Dropping the shame so you can finally breathe.
KATE K. Mentorship client
"I was in denial for a long time, but my daily wine was becoming a problem. I loved this journey with you because I understood how to think about things in a completely new way. I'm now 4 months sober and really loving my new life."
Fifteen+ years on the journey
of recovery...
Over the past 15 years, I’ve walked every twist and turn of the recovery path—from feeling utterly hopeless after a relapse in 2014 to standing on stage and sharing my story with thousands. I know what it’s like to feel trapped—and what it’s like to finally break free.
When you’re battling alcohol, plenty of people want to help—therapists, friends, family. But unless they’ve lived the chaos of drinking themselves, they can’t truly understand. I do.
I’ve been where you are, and I know the way forward.
Recovery isn’t one-size-fits-all. Your story is yours, and your recovery plan should be, too. That’s why I believe in blending self-compassion with personal responsibility, crafting a path that’s as unique as you are.
I’m not here to push you. That’s your call. But here’s what I know for sure:
We can do this, together. And we will.
PETER S. Mentorship client
"Despite getting sober a few years ago, something was missing. I was worried I was headed towards a drink, not away from one. Pamela made me realize growth wasn't about just not drinking - but changing my thought process as a person, to reach my life goals. Through what she calls "Project Pete," I'm on a new path that keeps me sober and helps me feel like a better man. Muchas gracias, Pamela"
How does mentorship work?
"If I could wave a magic wand, what would you change in your life?"
Whether it's cutting back, quitting, ending toxic ties, or redesigning your life, mentorship can get you there.
You’ve got one precious life—this is how you reclaim it.
We’ll meet on Zoom, one hour a week. Single sessions are available, but the 7-session package is your roadmap from point A to B.
We’ll assess where you are and craft a plan just for you—no cookie-cutter approach here.
Between sessions, I’ll recommend books, podcasts, and stay reachable by text. Yes, I’m always in your back pocket.
After seven weeks, we’ll adjust the frequency based on your needs. You’re always in control.
Our goal? To upgrade your life and uncover the sober, empowered version of you. Ready?
LET'S CHAT
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MY PROCESS
The Badass Recovery Process
Crafted from insights "within the mind of an addict" (don't fret, it's my superpower), this framework stems from five years of sobriety, a two-year period of relapse, and a radically new entry into sobriety eight years ago. Fifteen years on my own journey—and counting.
Experience has refined a path that's both compassionate and accountable.
You'll discover deep clarity and practical tools. While sobriety is a focus, we'll delve deeper, exploring topics like codependency and the narratives from your past that need rewriting. Every dimension of your humanity is embraced. It's about feeling proud, empowered, and deeply in love with your life—no more Day Ones.
This is your (R)evolution.
CARNEY O. Mentorship client
"I’m so much more peaceful and confident. My morning routine has been solid since you helped me develop it. I have written a two-way letter literally every morning since 4/24/21, and I haven’t had a drink since then. More importantly, I’m consistently honest with myself and genuinely nurturing my spirit. There still plenty more growth to go but that’s the exciting part, no?"
WHERE SHOULD YOU BEGIN?
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Once you do, I'll reach out via text or email, so we can find a time that works for both. We'll have a phone call and explore what's going on in your life, how we can work together - and if mentorship is the next best step for you. Simple.
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If we've spoken already, or you're ready to leap...
Then let's go! It takes three seconds of bravery to change your life. I'm so proud you're doing this.
Your future self is doing a celebratory salsa dance!
I will send you the payment link via text or email. Payment plans are available - I have options to make this work for you. Boom.
What if I'm not quite ready to start...?
"Your one, precious life."
Truth? Nobody feels fully ready to start. It's kind of the nature of the beast.
It's not my job to convince you, either. You're the only one that can give yourself permission to take this leap. Period.
But.
I can tell you that over the last seven years, I've seen countless lives recover their light. I've helped men, women, and non-binary folk get their joy back. It's pretty freaking magical to see someone claim their freedom and love themselves in a new way. It's the biggest honor of my life to help them.
Yes - you can always start by taking my online course, A NEW, SOBER YOU, and getting the UNAPOLOGETICALLY SOBER JOURNAL as a first step.
But if you've read this far and you're serious about changing your life, then book a clarity call with me. It's easy and there's no stings attached.
You're one step closer to your badass life.
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