WELCOME TO "THRIVE SOBER"

You’ve tried the white-knuckle willpower.

You’ve googled “am I drinking too much” more times than you want to admit. You’ve promised to stop—after this weekend, this party, this next rock bottom.

I see you, because I was you.

I’m Pamela Rueda, recovery coach and creator of the Sober Revolution Mentorship. I'm your walking permission slip to stop settling and start thriving.

I got sober the hard way—and I came back with a mission: to make sobriety louder, freer, sexier, and more alive than anything you’ve known before.

Welcome to Thrive Sober.
Where sobriety becomes your superpower—and your comeback story begins.

THIS IS HOW WE ROLL.

1 .

YOU ARE THE BOSS OF YOU.

I'm not here to convince you - the choice to change your life is yours.

I'm here to simplify your path and invite you to join the thousands of people who've quit drinking through my Thrive Sober process.

But only you can get tired enough of your b.s. to do something about it.

2.

Radical Honesty is Vital.

For decades, I drank too much. I was not a bad person - I was a person who needed help. My denial, victimhood and lies protected me - until they didn't. We have to get honest if we want to get unstuck.

It's time to be radical about reclaiming your life.

3.

Decide: One-Day or Day One?

That's the difference between just surviving, and thriving.

The decision to find it is ultimately yours.

So ask yourself:

Are you willing to get out of your comfort zone?

4.

We Don't Half-Ass Things

I have never seen a life truly transformed by half-assing things. Have you?

Recovery is about bold action. Not inspiration. Not information. But action.

You may not trust yourself right now.

But I ask that you trust me. This works. You just need to let me guide you.

#trustheprocess

5.

I Love the F-Word

My tongue is fabulously unfiltered.

F*ck yes.

But the f-word I love the most is:

Forgiveness.

Forgiveness of self, specifically.

When you forgive yourself, you open the door

to deeper healing.

Self-love.

That's where we will begin.

6.

You are a superhero

In my book, you're already a superhero.

I see you - all of you - under the tattered cape of addiction.

I see your badass superhero begging to break free.

You are here to let them out.

Let the comeback begin.

7.

You'll reclaim the pen that writes the storyline.

Sobriety gives you the power to change everything. Even how you think about yourself, your past, and your story. No more playing the victim of the soap opera. It's time to snatch that pen back and keep it in your hand.

You are the author of your own damn story.

8.

This is a 'WE' business.

Recovery from addiction is one of the most magnificent human experiences.

In order to Thrive Sober, the "I" must become "We."

We break out of our cocoons of old stories and isolation.

We connect with people who get us.

We are not alone.

9.

I don't care what you do - but do something.

On this site you'll find:

1. A podcast

2. Online sobriety courses

3. A sobriety 90-day journal

4. How to hire me as your coach

I don't care what you do.

Just do something.

No more staying small, stuck and silent.

You feel me?

10.

Thrive Sober is for you if:

You're a high-functioning overthinker. A numbing pro. The one who’s quietly unraveling under the surface—and knows it’s time to rise.

This isn’t just about quitting drinking.

It’s about reclaiming your power, burning shame to the ground, and building a life so good… you’ll never want to escape from it.

Ready?

Yes. You are.

Below, your plan.

1. GET YOUR 90-DAY SOBRIETY JOURNAL

2. CHECK OUT THE "NEW SOBER YOU" online courses

3. BOOK A CLARITY CALL WITH PAMELA (FREE)

50% Complete

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WELCOME TO "THRIVE SOBER"

You’ve tried the white-knuckle willpower.

You’ve googled “am I drinking too much” more times than you want to admit. You’ve promised to stop—after this weekend, this party, this next rock bottom.

I see you, because I was you.

I’m Pamela Rueda, recovery coach and creator of the Sober Revolution Mentorship. I'm your walking permission slip to stop settling and start thriving.

I got sober the hard way—and I came back with a mission: to make sobriety louder, freer, sexier, and more alive than anything you’ve known before.

Welcome to Thrive Sober. Where sobriety becomes your superpower—and your comeback story begins.

THIS IS HOW WE ROLL.

1 .

YOU ARE THE BOSS OF YOU.

I'm not here to convince you - the choice to change your life is yours.

I'm here to simplify your path and invite you to join the thousands of people who've quit drinking through my Thrive Sober process.

But only you can get tired enough of your b.s. to do something about it.

2.

Radical Honesty is Vital.

For decades, I drank too much. I was not a bad person - I was a person who needed help. My denial, victimhood and lies protected me - until they didn't. We have to get honest if we want to get unstuck.

It's time to be radical about reclaiming your life.

3.

Decide: One-Day or Day One?

That's the difference between just surviving, and thriving.

The decision to find it is ultimately yours.

So ask yourself:

Are you willing to get out of your comfort zone?

4.

We Don't Half-Ass Things

I have never seen a life truly transformed by half-assing things. Have you?

Recovery is about bold action. Not inspiration. Not information. But action.

You may not trust yourself right now.

But I ask that you trust me. This works. You just need to let me guide you.

5.

I Love the F-Word

My tongue is fabulously unfiltered.

F*ck yes.

But the f-word I love the most is:

Forgiveness.

Forgiveness of self, specifically.

When you forgive yourself, you open the door

to deeper healing.

Self-love.

That's where we will begin.

6.

You are a superhero

In my book, you're already a superhero.

I see you - all of you - under the tattered cape of addiction.

I see your badass superhero begging to break free.

You are here to let them out.

Let the comeback begin.

7.

You'll reclaim the pen that writes the storyline.

Sobriety gives you the power to change everything. Even how you think about yourself, your past, and your story. No more playing the victim of the soap opera. It's time to snatch that pen back and keep it in your hand.

You are the author of your own damn story.

8.

This is a 'WE' business.

Recovery from addiction is one of the most magnificent human experiences.

In order to Thrive Sober, the "I" must become "We."

We break out of our cocoons of old stories and isolation.

We connect with people who get us.

We are not alone.

9.

I don't care what you do - but do something.

On this site you'll find:

1. A podcast

2. Online sobriety courses

3. A sobriety 90-day journal

4. How to hire me as your coach

I don't care what you do.

Just do something.

No more staying small, stuck and silent.

You feel me?

10.

Thrive Sober is for you if:

You're a high-functioning overthinker. A numbing pro. The one who’s quietly unraveling under the surface—and knows it’s time to rise.

This isn’t just about quitting drinking.

It’s about reclaiming your power, burning shame to the ground, and building a life so good… you’ll never want to escape from it.

Ready?

Yes. You are.

Below, your plan.

Two Step

Welcome to Thrive Sober.
Where sobriety becomes your superpower—and your comeback story begins.