You started drinking
to
But now
drinking
is doing the opposite
AND YOU’RE SO READY.
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To wake up without guilt or shame
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To be present for those you love
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To trust yourself and be proud of who you are
YOU KNOW IT’S TIME.
Some days you feel ready – some days don’t. But deep inside, you know it’s time. You know you were meant for something bigger than being stuck in this cycle of booze-insanity and survival; but you don’t know how to get out. You’re in the right place.
YOU’RE NOT ALONE.
I’ve been exactly where you are. Red wine was part of my identity. I called it “my best friend” - until it turned on me.
My “I’m done” moment came in 2009, when I drove my 9-year-old, drunk, and almost killed us. I went to AA and got sober – but I was secretly miserable. Sobriety felt like punishment. I drank again.
It took me a few more years to crack the code on how to get sober once more.
This time, I was determined to find a completely different kind of sobriety.
I DID.
What I Know
It’s not about saying no to alcohol.
It’s about saying yes to you.
Sobriety is not punishment.
It’s the door to possibility.
And when you’re done hurting yourself...
“I’m here to help you claim your Freedom with a capital freaking F!”
¡Hola!
I'm Pamela
I help people quit drinking and find their most powerful and badass selves through a sobriety that opens the door to their personal revolution.
Spoiler alert: I’m an alcoholic of the garden variety. While I don’t need you to label yourself as anything, I’m proud to call myself an alcoholic in recovery. Frankly, I wear that label like a badge of honor. Because it is.
I have the creds: I’m a speaker, podcast host and meditation teacher. I’m also a Certified Professional Recovery Coach, Life Coach and SHE RECOVERS COACH.
Truth? What helps me guide you are not the creds. It’s the 15+ years in my journey of recovery. Frankly, I've been in all the places along the road - from mediocre sobriety to relapsing to finding a pretty badass recovery. That's what qualifies me to help you.
I've been in the hole, and I know the way out.
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Today
My students and clients have discovered a new way of doing life. They’ve quit drinking by tapping into the warrior within. They are rebels. Stigma-breakers. Shame-ditchers.
They are proud of who they’ve become and have learned ways of being present to their lives, no matter what comes their way. They trust themselves.
Their loved ones can see the change in them, sure. But it’s how they feel about themselves that makes all the difference.
NOW IT’S YOUR TURN
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CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“After years of self-destruction through drinking, I contacted Pamela. I took her course and finally understood some basic things that changed everything. The personal support she gave me while going through the course was great, too. I’ve been sober since 10-18-21.”
Jason M, course student
CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“Working with Pamela has been eye-opening. I wasn’t ready to quit, but I knew something had to change. Now I’m 4 months sober, which is a first! Feeling good about my life in so many ways and excited to see what’s next.”
Glenda G., mentorship client
CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“You’re the velvet hammer I did not know I needed. When I found you, I could not go more than a day without a drink. It’s now been a year and it would not have been possible without you. Have I told you that your voice notes have saved my bacon more than once? You rock.”
Trevor P., course student
CLIENT LOVE-NOTES
“What can I say about my dear Pamela? I knew I needed to change my drinking habits but was scared to face the truth. I also didn’t think I was as bad as needing AA, so I started our coaching with hesitation. Here I am, two years sober, living in a different city and in a different job. My whole life changed with one simple call. So thankful.”
Carney C., mentorship client
MY PROCESS
The Badass Recovery Process
helps you break the cycle for good and all.
I designed this framework using my insight from “within the mind of an addict” (don’t fear the term, it’s a superpower that helps me understand things that others don’t.) This process will give you radical clarity and practical tools, so you can build a sobriety you’re proud of, and never have to have another Day One.
The Deep Yes
People think it begins with a decision to stop drinking. But some of us don’t have the ability to decide to quit. That’s not how our mind works. We must decide from a different place. Clarity + compassion + ownership are the building blocks of our mindset shift as we begin.
Early Sobriety
This is where we grow our sea-legs in our new life sans booze. We’ll arm ourselves with new tools, concepts, and habits, shedding shame and victimhood along the way. It's about laying the foundation for sobriety that sticks.
Action Path
Sobriety is like marathon training, but with cake. We’ll craft a detailed plan through a program, M-B-S toolkit, and community. We don’t wait to “feel like doing” something – we do it because we said we would.
Your (R)evolution.
Once you've got your sobriety sea-legs, it's time for transformation. We’ll get under the hood of your drinking as we learn new mindsets and behaviors that will shift everything. The goal? Resiliency. Integrity. A new YOU that you can feel proud of.
SO WHERE SHOULD YOU GET STARTED?
WANT TO QUIT DRINKING?
Start with my signature online masterclass, “A NEW, SOBER YOU.”
This offer includes 3 courses
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The video course SOBRIETY 101. Twelve lessons to walk you through the ABCs of ditching the drink and reclaiming your life.
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The audio course 30-DAYS of EARLY SOBRIETY. Thirty audio coachings to help you navigate the first stage of sobriety with both tenderness and empowerment.
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The audio course EMERGENCY CRAVING TOOLKIT. How to survive a craving to drink when it hits (and it will), so you don’t have another Day One again.
Not ready for this large offer? Snag the EMERGENCY CRAVING TOOLKIT for only $29 and get a baby step in.
I need this, tell me moreWANT PERSONAL SUPPORT?
Work with me privately in my MENTORSHIP program
Whether you’re sober-curious, ready to quit, stuck in codependency, wanting to grow your sobriety or anywhere in between, hiring me as your coach is the fastest way to get results.
Using the Badass Recovery framework, the sessions are custom-tailored to you and your needs. There’s no formulaic coaching – you are unique, and so should your recovery.
learn more and let’s get on a free callSOBER, BUT “MEH..?
If you’re already sober and ready to begin your real
(R)evolution:
Join me in the Badass Recovery private community (coming 2024) and get access to:
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The “I’M SOBER, NOW WHAT?” course modules with Coach Alyssa and Pamela
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Mentorship videos, resources, tips and tricks to add fire to your sobriety
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Monthly live Q&A with Alyssa and Pamela
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A community of badass warriors growing their sobriety, just like you
¿HABLAS ESPAÑOL?
Here’s the course para ti.
Hola, cariño. Por supuesto que tengo un curso en español para mi gente. Tu mejor inversión para pararle a la tomadera y volver a ser libre una vez más.
Cuéntame más, YATHE SOBRIETY COMPANION JOURNAL
THE UNAPOLOGETICALLY SOBER JOURNAL.
No matter where you are on the journey, this journal will be your best friend for 90 days and be deliciously selfish. Coaching guidance, a plan of action, a sobriety toolkit, and accountability. Boom.
I need this now
What’s this badass thing anyway...?
Stop clutching your pearls.
A BADASS:
More than a term, it’s a badge of honor worn by those who defy norms and embrace their inner strength.
A badass doesn't just face challenges—they embrace them with grit and resilience.
They’re rebels, stomping on society’s stigma and status quo.
They’re bold. Unfiltered. Unapologetic.
They don’t tap out. They show up to their lives, no matter what.
They weather the storm - because they are the storm.
Are you ready to step into your badass?
YOU ASK, I ANSWER
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Do I need to be sober to start your course?
Why should I buy your courses if I can go to AA for free?
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